I'm going to share with you the great dilemma of the law of attraction. You attract what you believe. If you decide to believe that the law of attraction is not real, then per the law of attraction you will bring into your life proof of that belief. The law is still working, but you will not be able to see it or experience it that way.
So is the law of attraction real? Absolutely. But words from others can only take you so far. You must practice it, work with it, and then you will truly be able to see for yourself. And that is the best part about the law of attraction - when you experience it for yourself. Because that's when you realize anything is possible, and that is when life starts getting really fun.
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One way to help with the belief is to look all around you. You see people who have what you want, is it because they got lucky? You see others who are struggling, is it because they are unlucky? To believe in luck is to believe that the universe plays favorites. The reality is, we are all equally loved, and those who have what you want, manifested it through the law of attraction. And if they can do it, so can you!
Now one thing I will say is often people make law of attraction out to be easy, a one-time deal. We just visualize what we want for a few minutes and then BAM, it appears. While this is certainly how it can work sometimes, it will not always be the case.
Why? Because we have a series of beliefs in our head. Some that support our desires, others that eat away at them. We may want one thing, but doubt our ability or worthiness to ever get it. We may want another thing, and have no problems believing it is possible. So this journey is certainly one of self exploration and growth. But one that also rewards you in every way you desire as you progress.
So how do you manifest with the law of attraction?
One of the best ways to manifest what you want is to focus on the end desire. What does your life look like once you have what it is you want? In doing this, you are allowing the universe to give you the best match to that. Often, we think we know exactly HOW we want something to happen, yet we are seeing that from our limited perspective here on earth. The universe knows our truest heart's desires and the best most satisfying way to fulfill it. Law of attraction is all about trust, and it starts here.
The next thing you want to do is be clear about what you want. The more specific you can be, the better. If you don't know too many specifics, not to worry. The universe knows all you want. It is just helpful to list them out and know what they are more consciously if possible. Once you have a clear idea of what you want, put it out there to the universe and let the law of attraction do its work.
One great way to put your desire out to the universe and manifest what you want is to visualize what you want. See yourself already in possession of what you desire, that end goal. Feel the feelings of happiness and joy that come with having what you want. The more real you can make it feel, the better.
Some individuals like to script, others like to create vision boards. Some recite affirmations. Find the way that feels most fun and natural to you. Mastering the law of attraction is about learning yourself and your way of working with your conscious and subconscious programming.
The next item is to notice how you feel as you visualize (or script, recite affirmations, create your vision board, etc). Is it easy to feel those feelings of happiness as you envision having your end result? Do doubts creep into your mind? Do you feel stressed as you visualize? Not to fear, this is all really important and powerful feedback that lets you know where your beliefs in relation to your desire really lie. And when you know that, you can change it!
To change any negative beliefs about your desire, notice the tension that surfaces as you do your visualization, affirmations, scripting, etc. Take note of them. Then spend some time feeling better, making peace, with each of those doubts. When you make peace with them, they let go of their grip. And your desires come to you much more quickly.
Keep repeating this process of visualizing and making peace, always focusing on that end result, and knowing that while you get to choose the WHAT, the universe chooses the HOW.
And that is all there is to it! You must also take inspired action. But because you won't really know you took inspired action until after the fact, this is not something to worry about or over think. Do this and watch your desires manifest and FAST!